Women In Aikido

Thankful

2011-11-22T20:53:00.000-05:00

(with a little more wood flooring and some tatami mats, this is where my mind practices..)

while away from the dojo for the thanksgiving holiday, may you enjoy some mental training, some moments reflecting on things you are thankful for, and some wonderful time with your family.

osu!

To Begin..

2011-10-21T13:12:00.000-04:00

Ok, we all have a love-hate relationship with testing. Don't we? Or is it just me? I mean, I see how it's important.. not for rank, but more for always pushing yourself. Never allowing yourself to become stagnant, stuck, to plateau for too long.

I've been neglectful, again, of this blog-that believe it or not-I do really love. But just like my houseplants, I don't bring the watering can to you often enough. (Hopefully you're more of the cacti variety and haven't wilted much. Ahem.) This time my excuse, besides living life, raising a baby who has now grown into a full time running, climbing, talking toddler, deciding upon a relocation to the other side of the country and all the real estate crapola involved in that, is the aikido-side of my brain has been focused on November. My Shodan test.

It's been a long time coming and I'm really excited and am looking forward to testing. Of course part of me simply can't wait for it to be over. And that part of me is the one that knows there is SO much to know, I can barely be scratching the surface. But for good reason, we look at Shodan as "the beginning." And like all testing, kyu, dan, schoolwork etc.. it's more about the preparation than the test itself. It's all the hours training, studying, and practicing. We love the adrenaline that surges during tests, we hate the nervous stomach that comes along with it. But like most things, you'll walk away having gotten out of it what you put into it.
Hopefully come November 20th, I will have started on my path.
The beginning.

How about you guys? How do you feel about testing?
How does your dojo award rank?
Anyone testing soon and want to share their feelings? I'd love to hear...

Stillness

2011-05-03T16:08:00.000-04:00

Inspired by a friend's "Quiet Posts," I wanted to do a series of simple, silent posts. I think a lot can be said without words and likewise, so much of aikido is learned in silence. So much is learned through feeling, rather than through dissection and analyzing. Therefore, on occasion, I plan on throwing in these simple posts, mainly wordless, but hopefully a great marinade for thought and reflection.

Imagine

2011-04-15T11:05:00.000-04:00

I think one of the best ways to live your life and keep you always excitedly looking forward to the future, is by daydreaming. Come on, we've all done it.. sitting in math class in 4th grade, thinking about hearing that final bell ring and running home to play outside. Or 10th grade, that really cute boy (or girl) a few rows away. Or as an adult, sitting in a meeting at work, imagining yourself carving some beautiful figure 8's with your skis down a great run in the Rockies. Daydreaming provides the imagination an outlet. Let's you imagine the beauty of what you'd love to have, what you'd love to do. It let's you dream.

One of my favorite daydreams is thinking about the day I have my own dojo. I love to envision it: surrounded and canopied by big old trees, maybe a stream nearby, built from beautiful wood, and wide, wide open. A simple but beautiful structure. No walls..just open air. So you can feel one with nature, bowing in and out, you're bowing to everything around you...feel the breeze as you're training... you feel the 'harmony' in everything, everywhere. You feel empowered, rejuvenated, alive, and that everything and everyone are connected.
I often daydream about my dojo. It makes me happy. Even if I never get around to building this wonderful space, it already exists in my mind. And I love visiting it. If I ever do get around to building it before the ripe-old age I hope I'm intended to live to, I hope you'll all come train with me there. How wonderful that would be.

I thought about including a picture of a similar building, but then it would distract from my vision. Because any picture that I'd include, that building already exists, and has characteristics that may be similar but are also different from the one in my mind. Besides, in reading this entry, you've likely started to imagine what I've described, and including a picture would distract from your ability to imagine.

So..
big old trees, with thick bark and lucious green canopying leaves.
simple strong wooden structure.
no walls.
nearby running creek.
inviting.

imagine.

Sakura Sunday

2011-04-13T15:40:00.002-04:00

This past Sunday was the annual Cherry Blossom Festival, or Sakura Sunday, in Philadelphia. Every year our dojo participates in demonstrating aikido for all the festival goers. Basically it's the one time we get to show the public an otherwise pretty private art. This year the weather was a bit cooler, but nonetheless, a beautiful day. The cherry trees were in full bloom, the demonstration went wonderfully and the company and training of my fellow aikidoka, marked the start of a wonderful spring. Hope to see you there next year!

Graditude

2011-04-10T19:02:00.001-04:00

First, if you're reading this (which you obviously are), I thank you for sticking with me (or checking in periodically) through my wishy-washy, much to be desired in terms of dedication, stints. I love you and I apologize if you've felt neglected. I want to say I'll get better, and I hope to. Really. Ok, enough shmoop.. onto the topic at hand. And a small forewarning, this is a somewhat personal (introspective) blog entry.

Recently the topic of a possible job relocation for my husband has been surfacing. It's a somewhat sensitive topic in the household, mainly because from the beginning I was pretty adamant about wanting to stay put-at least for now. Don't get me wrong, I'm totally an adventurous girl at heart, but with family here, and my son having so much time with the family, and add my aikido family to the mix, well, it's tough to pack up so easily. But I try to be supportive and open-minded.

Recently we took a trip out to the West Coast, the location where we could be pointing the U-Haul in the future. I think I was on GREAT behavior...went through model homes, checked Trulia for houses under 1million in every new town we explored, and even found the local Yoshinkan dojo. Yep. I did a TON of research beforehand and found-and contacted-the West Coast Sensei's of the local school. I inquired about visiting and being a guest on the mat for a class, and of course, they welcomed me with open arms. I don't know if you have had much time training in another dojo, or if you remember your early days of training. But I stood on the mat feeling that old feeling of being a newbie (a feeling I hadn't had in a handful of years now), a bit awkward and unsure but soon class began and off we went.

Let me first say that this was my first time visiting another dojo, doing aikido, training, on someone else's mats. I was amazed. I was amazed that we spoke the same (or very, very similar) language. Both literally (Japanese) and figuratively. And what completely humbled me and simultaneously swelled my heart with pride was how much I felt that my training, both past and current, have shaped me into a great aikidoka. I don't necessarily mean ability-wise, but mindset. Ability to learn, to adjust, to blend with new people, new teachers, a new place. I felt SO grateful that I have had the years I've had, training where I have and with the people I have. Not just the amazing teacher I have had, but all the senior students, all the instructors, all my fellow juniors. I never take it for granted.

That night, while the warm West Coast air was blowing through my hair as I left the dojo, I was thinking about so many things-where I had gone, where I was going, what was in my future as an aikidoka. I felt immensely gracious for everything and hoped that no matter where I would be bowing in for class, that I always remembered the feeling I had this very night.

That I am one lucky, lucky gal.

A special thank you to Aikido Del-Mar for allowing me to be a guest and train with you guys. Osu!

Zanshin

2010-12-02T10:52:00.000-05:00

Last night's Gakushu class was focused on Zanshin, literally a Japanese word describing a relaxed yet alert mind, a 'remaining mind', or 'finishing.' We discussed the importance of being mindful, of having a sense of self-control. Sensei used the analogy of sleeping to explain the importance of Zanshin. "When one is asleep, they are not here, (unconscious), they are physically present but not mentally. When someone is awakened, they are suddenly present. Mindful, alert."
Whatever it is you do, be mindful, be alert. Finish. Zanshin.
It is no wonder that all aikido techniques end with shite's zanshin. We are finishing, focusing the mind through the throw, until the very end.

This is a pretty deep concept in Aikido, so I thought I'd leave you with that to marinate in. Or leave you with a remining mind on the concept... and turn to something a bit lighter...

Thinking about Zanshin lead me to a cool blog, Zanshin Art. And to a fun little blog. I am in no way meaning to show disrespect, and hope you all enjoy it. Also, I am not in the habit of 're-blogging', but this was too fun not to share.
Enjoy! Osu! :)

"Make your own O'Sensei"
(for the printout/cutout page: http://aikidoargentina.org/osensei_oaa.jpg)

Guest Blogger: Male students and how you should treat a lady on the mat.

2010-11-29T11:00:00.000-05:00

During the long holiday weekend I was honored when one of my best friends asked if it would be ok if he penned something for my blog. Considering he is a huge role model on the mat, a dear, dear friend and is totally a kick-ass dude, of course I said YES! (Not to mention it doesn't hurt that he's been on the mat 3x as long as I have and is a Sandan, and therefore has good vantage point.) This also led me to thinking about female uke's and some of the most well-known aikidoka using a female as their uke. I remember watching a video of Takeno Sensei early on in my training and not realizing until I watched the video a few times that the person he was throwing, beautifully-mind you, was a woman. I remember being somewhat shocked. I went back and dug-up that video to rewatch it and see if my perspective has changed in the 4 years I've been training. Below is my friends' thoughts and following, the video I referenced.

After eleven years of aikido training, I’ve met many people. It always astonishes me that there are so many men in the world that really have no idea how to work with women. I’m told that women make up 51% of the population of the United States and yet still so many of my fellow male aikidoka are completely clueless.

Let me give you a hint. Treat them EXACTLY as you would treat a man on the mat. That’s all there is to it, treat them the same. Show a woman no more deference than their rank deserves. If they are a black belt, hit them as you would hit any other black belt. If they are new to a martial art, take your time and be gentle, but no more gentle than you would if it was a man’s first day. No woman walks into a dojo and expects to be at a Debutante Ball.

In aikido and many other martial arts, everyone wears an identical uniform when they train together. This is in part to remove distraction from training and promote a spirit of camaraderie, but it is also designed to mitigate the human tendency to prejudge on another. This seems to work well enough for people of different ethnic or religious backgrounds, so why the tendency to misogyny? Let their rank, determine how you treat a woman.

I train with women who are smarter, stronger and more talented than I can ever hope to be in aikido and I have learned that to be most respected by them all I have to do is hit them really hard. Might go against certain sensibilities, but the harder I swing at the women I train with, the better all of our aikido becomes.

Osu!

(see approx: 2.30sec)

Polishing One's Soul

2010-11-11T12:30:00.003-05:00

The Japanese sword was often called the "Soul of the Samurai" as the warrior and his weapon were inseparable. In a society that taught one to always prepare for death, to wear your best clothes under your armor to battle in case you were to die, it's easy to understand how such people lived only in the present. They never waited until tomorrow, as the day was never a guarantee. They found the one thing they could do best and lived each day- as if it were their last- perfecting it. Polishing their art.

This was the topic of last night's Gakushu class. Continuously striving to perfect your art. No matter what your art is. Whether it's your job, your hobby, your relationships- it doesn't matter. So long as you are working to perfect it. Do what you love, and do it the best you can.
Seek out the perfect in everything and don't overlook other's strive for perfection. See perfection in your daily life. In nature's polished soul.

Find what it is within yourself that you can strive at for perfection. Work everyday to be better at it. Polish it.
Do your best constantly.
Never wait until tomorrow. Do not wait until you're feeling better, you have more time, the weather is nicer, etc. Take advantage of the NOW.
Be in the moment. Grab it. It's yours.
Kancho reminded us, "We must continuously evolve, move forward, progress our learning. Stagnation is moving backwards. Progress or collapse. Construction or destruction."
Keep building, keep growing, keep learning.

What would you do today, right now, if you knew it was the last chance you had to do it?
No tomorrow.
Only today.
Polish your art.
Polish your soul.

Shoshin: Beginner's Mind

2010-10-24T12:40:00.000-04:00

First, I apologize for my absence recently. It's been a whirlwind of two months, of summer's close, full of traveling to see family, a vacation and many, many sleepless nights and zombie days of blissful new parenthood. Also although I thought about blogging, it felt difficult considering I hadn't been on the mat. How could I write about training when days and then weeks would pass and I'd simply WISH I had trained? Although we were away, I found myself doing basic movements at the beach, or while I was cooking dinner, hell even when I had my little guy ridin' in the baby bjorn. (what my window-peering neighbors must think..) When we were away I had some leisure reading time and found myself engrossed in a book about Buddhism for mothers of young children. One of the chapters really "got me" where the author discussed a beginner's mind. The concept of Beginner's Mind, or Shoshin, comes up repeatedly with aikido training. The importance of having an open, empty mind cannot be emphasized enough.

As a new parent, I get firsthand view of a brand new mind. Every day my son sees something for the very first time. I get to watch his eyes in wonderment, watch his developing mind process this new thing. And I've come to realize, I can learn alot from my 19 week old child. Which lead me to some more pondering of the importance of shoshin...

Basically the Beginner's Mind takes a few concepts into account. Come to each new experience as if for the first time rather than with old prejudices. Similar to a toddler's point of view by default because they are a beginner at life. Young children challenge us to take a look at familiar objects and situations as though we had never seen them before. As we often hear repeated by a child, "what is this?" can also serve as a tool for cultivating a beginner's mind point of view.

The book reminded me of an old Zen tale:
A great scholar visited a famous zen master. While the master served tea, the scholar talked about zen. The master poured the visitor's cup to the brim, but rather than stopping, continued to pour. The scholar watched the overflowing cup until he could no longer keep silent. "it's overflowing! No more can go in!" the scholar cried. "You are like this cup. How can I show you zen unless you first empty your cup?" the master replied.

Wisdom is more about questions than answers, openness than certainty, about mystery and wondering rather than knowing. Wisdom is an acknowledgement of not knowing. By such an acknowledgement, you are opening your mind to each situation, each learning experience, in order to grow. Part of emptying our cup is a willingness to unlearn what we have learned.

Off the mat, a beginner's mind not only provides an opportunity for wisdom and growth, but also serves as a way of taking the mundane experiences in life and turning them into the miraculous. It's a way of putting on new glasses, walking in a new pair of shoes, taking a seat on a different side of the room in order to watch things unfold all around you from a different angle. Seeing a specific type of tree or flower, watching the sun set, smelling the burning leaves in the distance-tell yourself it's the first time. What do you see? Smell? Feel?

On the mat, if one approaches learning a technique with an open mind, as if they have never seen it before, the possibilities are endless for growth. Potential is not stifled when the aikidoka acknowledges not knowing. The mind closes like a door on a hinge, a bit more with each level of certainty, and opens with each little bit of questioning. We allow ourselves to grow, to reach towards our potential, by adopting this mindset.

The first step when bowing onto the mat is to pour a little bit out of our cups. I challenge you to do so next time you train. I bet you'll see you've opened up endless possibilities for yourself.

Love, and the Aikidoka

2010-08-17T10:58:00.001-04:00

Stepping onto the mat,

coolness beneath my feet and sudden intense awareness over

every inch of my body.

Where it is, where it should be.

I breathe deeply; clear my head of what the day has set forth

or what the night will deliver.
Bow.

The first partnering,

toes on the line, six feet apart.

The rush I feel as he comes at me like fever, and I turn.

Unfaltering his energy follows, unwavering his energy drops him.

I think: do anything yo uwant to me,

feet on the ground, mind your balance, your center.

Kamae.

The afterglow,

aching and heart pounding, muscles never aware of, sore.

My weary body at breaking point, a moment more unbearable.

It passionately perseveres.

I look around the room: a family cloaked in black and white

and my heart as full as the moon.

Yamea.

-JWilliams 2009

Kihon Dosa Renzoku

2010-08-15T11:36:00.000-04:00

Thursday I had two guilty pleasures: lifting at the gym for an hour, mid-day, while my parents watched the Little Man, AND training last night while the husband got some QT with our boy.
I'm so spoiled.
Class in review: an hour dedicated to Kihon dosa to kanren waza. Awesome.
These are the classes where we get to break the basic movements and applied techniques down into the finer details. (AND get a great workout if you're partnered with someone who will give that to you-which I thankfully was.)

The importance of basic movements cannot be emphasized enough, at least with the Yoshinkan style which I train in. Training your body to become strong, developing muscle memory for the movements, will lead to strong technique execution.
Here is a brief clip of Kihon Dosa by the Senshusei of the Hombu dojo:

Ok onto the review (this might be more for my journal/notebook and not so much leisure reading, I apologize if you were looking for an entry not so technical)..

Basic movements and related techniques.
1. Cross Step In Body Change #1:

Keep hand on line and ENTER-will make uke very off balance in the backward direction. Don't go off the line/towards uke's side or uke won't be off balance.

2. 95 Degree Pivot:

Don't break the connection between your wrist and uke's-maintain it by using stance hand to enter slightly on pivot.
For technique, palm up initially then palm down.
Be sure uke's arm doesn't have elbow joint pointed towards you or control isn't obtained.

3. Elbow Power #1:

Note where "breakoff point" is for uke, depending on their height, there is an optimal point prior to losing the connection with uke arm.
For the basic movement, pass the breaking point and still raise hands to correct level-forehead height.
For technique, no need to raise as high, but be sure uke is off balance away from you, towards where you're throwing

4. Elbow Power #2:

Don't pull uke as you body change on the basic movement.
First drop your hand, uke will naturally follow you down and then body change, uke's body will "fall" in your direction.
On technique, when shuffling in, be sure to line yourself up with uke's back foot, then apply second control.
Don't make uke's head arc outward when you pivot. Keep arc small and contained.
180 degree pivot and then body change (not 95 degree pivot as many people are doing.)

5. After Class Exercise #1 and #2:

As uke, trust where shite's hand will be as you pivot around during the basic movement, it will be directly above your head.
Remember to do a big kick-step out or as shite cuts down, you won't have gone far enough for shite to do the basic movement.

Bottom line: you don't want to interfere with your partner's ability to do the basic movement.

I realized how much I truly love classes dedicated to the foundation of our style such as an hour straight of kihon dosa and then followed by the related techniques. Often times we get hung up with being excited for what technique we'll learn in class that day, but truthfully, when we drill the basic movements is when I find the most happiness on the mat. Sure flipping and throwing is fun, but feeling your leg muscles burn after holding kamae for 10 minutes can be fun too. I mean you're participating in something that is the foundation of what you love. Something that has been drilled for many, many years. Something the "masters" have instilled and continue to teach the importance of. You get to feel connected, literally and figuratively, to something that is the backbone of it all. So get out there and get your legs burning! Drill it. Do it.
Osu!

Sunday, Monday, Happy Days..

2010-08-11T09:36:00.000-04:00

Monday night's class in review...

Techniques:

Ryotemochi nikkajo osae ichi
Suigetsu tsuki sokumen irimi nage (enter! slightly off center line, raise elbow immediately to catch uke's chin!)

Self-reflecting feedback....

where oh where have my ab muscles gone,

oh where oh where could they be..

Keep at the breakfalls, girl.. like riding a bike, it'll come back...

persistence, patience, determination.

Being in the Moment.

2010-08-09T09:53:00.000-04:00

Saturday morning was lovely.. a walk around our beautiful park with my husband, 2 Labrador Retrievers and my dear son, the Little Man, in his stroller. When we arrive home, I lovingly say to my husband (in that sweet, maybe you'll get a piece later if you agree to what I'm about to propose voice) that I'd like to train this morning. He says "okay" (who knows if it was the voice or the fact he had work he needed to do and probably wanted to be undisturbed for a few hours.)

I joyously run out the door with my bag and buki and race off to the dojo. I sure hope Little Man ate enough to tie him over until I get home. Should I have tried to feed him again before I left- a 4th time before the sun is a 1/4 of the way into the morning sky? I think he only ate half a feeding that last time, there's no way he's going to make it to the next feeding. Did I leave a bottle in the fridge? Am I being selfish right now? Holyshita woman, just relax and go enjoy class for God's sake.

I change as quickly as possible into MY dogi- still relishing in the fact that I can wear it again- grab my buki and run off to bow onto the mat. It is quite quickly apparent that I do not recognize a good 1/4 of the student's on the mat. Have I been gone THAT long?? As class is beginning and we bow in and do basic warm ups, I realized today's class will be taught by Kancho (カンチョー) instead of the usual Saturday morning Sensei who is working with all the new students. This is nice because it takes a typical Beginner/ Saturday morning class and splits it up into two categories of students: a) those who can do a breakfall and b) those who are walking around with the deer in the headlights look on their faces.

We, the a) group, then proceed to learning 3 variations of shihonage: a basic with pin, a more advanced variation with pin (skipping a cross step and doing a forward pivot into the control) and then the throw (with a cross step back, one knee down.) In review: my wrists hurt. I had a great partner but basically my wrists haven't been held in that unnatural position for as long as my core hasn't held the typical uke body posture for the shihonage pin. I relaxed and let my joints give a bit more, let my stomach tighten a bit more. During the throw, I avoided the hiyaku ukemi and just did a zempo kaiten ukemi ni. Being a person that loves hiyaku ukemi and despite desperately wanting to be thrown again, I figured, let's not push this. I wonder if Little Man is hungry, hope he's not crying. Good grief! Focus woman! Be in the moment; your boy is fine.

It was a good class, and I left tired and sweaty- always a great feeling. I did rush home though, anxious to see how my boy was doing, and realizing that despite being in the moment, in the back of my mind I missed him the whole time. What a crazy dichotomy new motherhood is. One part of you is aching to "cut the cord" and get out of the house, alone, where you can quickly run in and out of stores, not have to look for drive-thru's for coffee etc. Then the other part of you is missing the hell out of that little person.
So maybe I found another little self-lesson I'd like to learn during these new days back on the mat: simply being in the moment. I think there is a lot that can be gained- focus, strength, peace- when you completely let go and be where you are, when you are. And I think this lesson would do me good, both as an aikidoka, and as a new mommy.
Let's give it a try, shall we?

The Morning After

2010-08-05T17:58:00.000-04:00

For those of you who don't know, I had a brief (3 month) hiatus from the mat, otherwise known as pregnancy. I gave birth to a wonderful baby boy June 10th and was fortunate enough to train up until I was 8 months pregnant (although modified training: no hardcore breakfalls) when I was nicely kicked off the mat by not being allowed to pay my monthly dues. Which was probably a good thing so as to avoid having my water break on the mat, a definite possibility with how long I planned to train. So last night was my return- return to putting on my own dogi (my husband's wasn't nearly as flattering as mine), return of the excitement/stomach butterfly feeling when stepping onto the mat, return of being able to bow down to my elbows without my rear reaching for the stars.

What a great feeling. Warmups: hiriki no yosei ichi, fumikomi taihenko ichi and hyakuhachijudo kaiten, then a few koho ukemi. Followed by kumi hyakuhachijudo kaiten and two techniques. I was nervous about the ukemi, as the week before- when I truly first stepped back onto the mat- I could not do a sit up, could not pull myself up from any breakfalls and after a night practicing kaitennage with one of our dojo's most highly ranked dan females, I could not stand upright for 2 days. Probably not considered "easing back into things post c-section" girl. Then last night I got the pleasure of working with a great guy, who was making a return to the mat as well after his own hiatus (he wasn't pregnant, he was frequently traveling for work.) He is the son of, for lack of a better term, an ass-kickin' Italian street fighter (also an aikidoka) who loves to tell you how it 'would be done on the street' whenever you partner with him. A great family and needless to say, quite awesome to train with, as they train with everyone equally. So my welcome back has been with some amazing training partners. And by amazing I mean slightly intimidating.. please don't let my intense determination lead to accidental seppuku tonight.

I will say my breakfalls are still not pretty but they are an improvement over the ugliness that the mat was wiped with the week before (who needs mat mops when we can just use Aiki-J?!)

Ok, I did have to rest occasionally but I did them....baby steps. No pun.

I was worried today, the morning after, would leave me with the I got ran over by the aikido bus feeling. You all know that feeling, or maybe you can't remember it because it was so long ago. In case, I'll remind you: It's the feeling you had the days following your early training days. Maybe when your unbleached, stiff as a potato sack dogi and sock-clad feet made you stand out a bit on the mat, despite thinking no one would notice you (ahem.) I'm so blending in with the others..why is no one wearing socks in January when it feels like there's no heat in here? Your neck muscles aching from bracing for throws/falls, your butt and legs burning when simply trying to walk up the steps, and let's not discuss attempting to look at someone or something at your side without having to turn your whole body towards them to do so. Oddly though, I feel great today. Despite the usual interrupted sleep night (see feeding at 1:45am and 4:30am), and the cold plaguing my household this week, I jumped out of bed this morning feeling wonderful. Dare I say.. morning after bliss..??

So I throw the question out there for you all to think about...Is aikido that drug that serves as your escape, your 'me time', your "I hope I'm sore tomorrow so I can be reminded of how great class was the night before", your dealer off the good stuff, yo..your provider for morning after..bliss? What does aikido training do for you? And if you were off the mat for an extended period of time, what was it like returning? Were you intimidated? Nervous? Did you feel disconnected with yourself? Or on the flip side, did you feel as I did last night..as if you were coming back home to an old friend?

Goal for the end of the summer: fit back into my own obi, with extra room to spare. Better lay off of the late night ice cream.

Also of note: Aiki-J isn't always, and won't always be, so damn wordy. Promised.

One of two...

2010-08-03T16:12:00.001-04:00

I thought what better way to start this "Women In Aikido" blog than an inaugural post dedicated to Takako Kunigoshi. For those of you who do not know, Kunigoshi Sensei was one of the first known female aikidoka, training under Ueshiba Sensei (O'Sensei) at the Kobukan Dojo (Hombu Dojo), in the early 1930's when "Aikido" was known as "Daito Ryu." She often spoke of being only one of two women on the mat in those days. She spoke of O'Sensei not "changing techniques because she was a woman" and she provided interesting insight into training during the prewar era in Japan.

A few years ago when I started training, my 'minority status' on the mat (there are only a handful of women who train in my dojo, and of them only a select few who train regularly) led me to do a bit of research on the history of women in aikido-women bowing onto the mat, to train in the style I had so quickly grown to love. Of course there had to be a whole legacy of Japanese women, paving the way for the female aikidoka, in an art so graceful and beautiful, that women would naturally be drawn to it. Right? I quickly learned how wrong I was. Ok, maybe a slew of us didn't exist, but how about a handful? A couple? ONE?!!

During such said research I stumbled across Kuniogshi Sensei, standing out amongst the dogi-clad men and taking ukemi like the rest of 'em. She often spoke about how it was difficult to describe what you learned in training, that often times, you just tried to copy the teacher(s), and "do as you were told", but that she had a hard time remembering the techniques once she left the dojo. So she began drawing the techniques in hopes of understanding what she learned. She would have fellow aikidoka pose for the rough sketches and then go home and in order to finish the drawings, recreate the techniques while watching in a mirror. If only YouTube existed back then! All I can say is, thank Buddha, Allah and Oprah that my training doesn't rely on my ability to draw what I learned in class that day! I'd be trying to decipher shihonagi through damn stick figures.

Although many women such as Kuniogshi Sensei aren't in the aikido history books, she surely stands out for demonstrating that gender mattered little once you bowed onto the mat. I think there is something in her core that all female aikido share. She occupies a special place in the early years of the art due to her dedication and artistic talents. And although she probably didn't have her own locker room, or a hakama tailored to a 'woman's hip,' I'd be willing to bet she was happy as is..and might even be a follower of my blog. :)


Takako Kunigohi